Monthly Archives: February 2012

Jumping City Puddles on Leap Year Day

Rain fell over the city gradually, a fine misting that became heavier as the minutes passed. The wind picked up and swept over a well-known avenue: Broadway. It pushed insistently on tourists’ backs and elbowed commuters in the face, howling as a school of umbrellas tried to navigate its way helplessly across the busy streets. Nylon material turned inside out here and there, the metal frames glistening like light gleaming off shimmering trout pulled from the water.

Small rivers, dark and polluted ran along the curbs, dragging reluctant garbage: gutted cigar innards, a crushed soda can, innumerable lost receipts, and tattered debris down deep into the sewer system. Steam rose from the vented subway grates and manholes, mingling with the chilled exhalations of the shivering crowds.

Rain fell over the city, trapping grit, car exhaust fumes, contagious microbes, and deadlier things that murmur to vulnerable masses in dark, recurring dreams. The rain fell with purpose, pulling it all into the waiting, gaping pipe-lined belly below.

I paused for less than a moment, coughed out my urban despair in desperation, and felt gratitude, unexpected relief.

Germy Love

Give me sallow skin
and shallow breaths.
Give me clammy hands
and a fevered head.

Let me take on
his ills and aches,
while we rest
in shifts.

We heal faster
than single blankets
and emptied tea mugs
ever fix alone.

‘Is it Spring yet?’ Lamb Stew

Man, that cold almost KO’ed me over this past week. Today’s unseasonably warm weather (almost 60°F) caved to a chilly evening. The cold set deep in my bones, whispered against my lungs, and caressed my flimsy spring jacket in derision.

I also lost about seven pounds since last posting. Apparently, subsisting on a small apple, yogurt spoonfuls, plain chamomile tea, and a lonely chicken noodle soup cup per day does not do much for weight maintenance (P.S. I do not recommend this as a magic weight loss formula and advise those seeking crash diet plans to look at healthy alternatives for gradual results).

My stomach wanted to eat a warm meal for a change, something not too greasy and light, yet hearty. If you’re against eating lamb (which I understand), then switch it out for beef and dig in- this is a tasty, low carb, and economical meal.

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Hydrating and Upbeat

Today, I walked two miles or so to the doctor’s office while dizzy, fevered, and congested.

I'm in there, somewhere

My boyfriend is also sick and lost his voice. We are hiding in separate rooms to ride out our mutual viral infections. A positive aspect is that I can listen to music and  submit lyrics online without upsetting his musical tastes or mine (I have no idea how that song even made its way onto my iTunes. I blame Amazon’s free MP3 downloads).

I drank almost a gallon of water and still feel parched, but realize it could be worse. What if I didn’t have any clean water available to drink? Best of all, it was cold and refreshing. I know this discomfort is temporary though I may feel out of sorts, light-headed, and unable to keep food down now. I am fortunate in being able to consult and receive professional medical care when needed too, and on a proactive, preventative basis if desired.

There is no room for misery in my little isolation room tonight. Time to sleep and rest up.

Schooling Padawan N00Bs

Sister: What is a skyrim? lol
Me: “What is a skyrim?” hahahaha
Sister: not funny! what is that?
Me: I have so much to teach you, padawan
Sister: lol!

Rustic Sweet Potato & Onion Gnocchi

The potato pasta from my childhood, doughy and covered in thick Alfredo sauce was not palatable. I detested ‘gnocchi night’, scooping the bare minimum to appease my Italian mother before pushing them around my plate and eating the side vegetables instead.

However, I had leftover sweet potatoes from baking french fries the night before and wanted to give gnocchi a second chance. It won me over, but I broke all the rules in my quest for redeeming these spud dumplings, and took a few shortcuts to get dinner on the table faster.

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Preparing for Marriage

Woah, what a heavy title for Valentine’s Day, but there, I said it. I bought premarital counseling workbooks for my boyfriend and me (read about our discussion on commitment from 2010).

(Pause)

Ahhh!!!

Stop shouting, self. There is no ring (yet). 

Typically, these exercises are reserved for young couples who may not know each other well. Truthfully, I am not sure whether I take the author, “General” Hafeezah’s credentials seriously, but the presentation of the books seemed appealing and humorous. The idea is to help people focus on the important stuff, the difficult questions many forget or do not think to ask before tying the knot.

We recognize that people grow and change over the years, and though we know each other well, almost seamlessly, our relationship is almost a decade in the making. During these nine years, we underwent our most transformative as individuals who graduated from high school, college, and graduate school. We have many years and experiences to process and reflect on together.

We learned from living with one another, but have not yet solidified our expectations on how our roles may alter as a married couple, or what will remain the same between us. We haven’t gone through very difficult situations either, like being tied to a mortgage, signing up for a joint bank account, or raising a child together.

Completing these workbooks and talking about our responses with one another will provide insight. I believe this exercise will prove a healthy, exploratory, and reaffirming step as we ready ourselves financially for a better place to live, a home.

We don’t observe Valentine’s Day in a traditional way (Read my article on Girlhack: Anti-Valentine’s Day), but keep an ongoing, open dialogue with one another year-round instead. February 14th can show one’s love for their special someone materially, but can also serve as a way to divide a couple, not strengthen them. Buying presents is nice, but can mask problems worth addressing.

Have you ever used premarital handbooks? Why or why not?

Good Luck Parachutes

Wordless Wednesday: Chinatown, NYC on January 29, 2012.

Unintended Hiatus

The proverbial red apple symbolizes temptation, acting against the expected, acceptable, or permissible.

Gosh darn it, shucks, I only yammered on about writing more often all last month and back into 2011I hid away to devote extra time to the start of the Spring semester at work, filed my taxes, got some teeth extracted, spent a few days drugged out on a prescribed narcotic and a few more withdrawing from said drug, and didn’t blog for almost two weeks.  Blogging is my red apple.

What a delicious red apple it is too, if I could only bite into it without wincing (the perfectly ripened and neglected apples in my refrigerator, not this site)!

I’m not creative enough to segue into football and close this post at the same time. Go Giants!