Category Archives: Finances

‘Is it Spring yet?’ Lamb Stew

Man, that cold almost KO’ed me over this past week. Today’s unseasonably warm weather (almost 60°F) caved to a chilly evening. The cold set deep in my bones, whispered against my lungs, and caressed my flimsy spring jacket in derision.

I also lost about seven pounds since last posting. Apparently, subsisting on a small apple, yogurt spoonfuls, plain chamomile tea, and a lonely chicken noodle soup cup per day does not do much for weight maintenance (P.S. I do not recommend this as a magic weight loss formula and advise those seeking crash diet plans to look at healthy alternatives for gradual results).

My stomach wanted to eat a warm meal for a change, something not too greasy and light, yet hearty. If you’re against eating lamb (which I understand), then switch it out for beef and dig in- this is a tasty, low carb, and economical meal.

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Five Girly Things I Really Wanted, but Didn’t Buy on Cyber Monday

I used to shun feminine clothing, beauty cosmetics, and hairstyle trends, but something happened to my brain from the time I grabbed my college degree to when I stepped into the workforce. However, paying my way through life helps restrain my urge to splurge. Instead, I stayed within my holiday spending budget and bought gifts for others as originally planned.

Here are several items I stopped myself from purchasing:

1. Urban Decay: Book of Shadows IV, eye shadow palette - Artsy packaging, glamorous, vibrant colors, and rave reviews from many Urban Decay fans made this kit a difficult one to pass up. $64.00 USD.

2. Urban Decay Skyscraper Multi-benefit Mascara - I went from buying clear mascara to stumbling across this incredible product in a sample size. This product lengthens, curls, and separates without clumping. Long-lasting. Black. $20.00 USD.

3. New Orleans Saints PINK Tee & Boxer Gift Set by Victoria’s Secret – Sheepishly adding this one as a NY Giants fan since birth, but the team has style, NOLA is beautiful, and the fleur-de-lis symbol is classy. Lastly, my team loyalty defection has nothing to do with the G-Men’s horrific season, okay? $52.50 USD. Who dat indeed.

4. Grand Traveler in Rhythm and Blues by Vera Bradley – Carry-on compliant, bluesy, and perfect for my upcoming trip in 2012. I never check a bag and with this one, I won’t feel tempted either, $118.00 USD.

5. Fossil Starter Charm Bracelet with Charms - These charms are beautiful, chunky, and represent really memorable events in my life. A starter bracelet is relatively inexpensive. Build a bracelet or necklace order with the helpful charm builder module on Fossil’s website. My ideal bracelet lists for a total $172.00, USD.

Total money saved from the throes of reckless spending: $426.50!

5 Obvious Signs You Live with a Teacher

It’s report card season. My household reflects the lifestyle of busy educators on the move, especially around this time of year.

Below are five telltale signs you live with a teacher.

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Are those UGG® boots?

An innocent question, sure, but I pride myself on avoiding those expensive, bulky sponges.

“I wouldn’t wear Uggs to work,” I reply and laugh, “And I don’t like them.”

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An Irresponsible Splurge vs. Losing my Marbles

This is a needs vs. wants dilemma. Frequent readers of this humble blog probably know how much I love music. In fact, these musical instruments and related items fill my home*:

  • Keyboard
  • Multicolored xylophone bells for children
  • Hand percussion (tambourines, sleigh bells, maracas, bongos)
  • At least one functioning guitar and several defunct others on stands
  • An amp
  • Full-sized violin
  • Effect pedal
  • Snare drum
  • Hi-hat with tambourine tree
  • Snare brushes and countless and a few pairs of drumsticks
  • A USB condenser microphone

What will you do for entertainment?

I followed through on canceling cable television service yesterday, but my provider didn’t make it easy. Ladies and gents, I am officially cable TV free after barreling through a forty-five minute conversation with ‘Dan’ who tried his best to divert me from this goal (and quite possibly took it as a mission to save my soul).

The customer service representative was distraught when he learned my intentions.

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how consumerism works

you walk into the store because you’re running low on something.

their business model surrounds you with plastic smiles and overeager, hovering bodies. they offer “expert” opinions and watch every move you make. if you pause over an item for more than a few seconds, a friendly voice cheers, “do you need help with anything?” don’t fall for it. you’re better off pretending you’re deaf, because if you so much as acknowledge this staff member, it’s over.

like a farmer’s tan line that refuses to fade, they’ll stick with you until you pay at the register. forget one item, the trick is to ensnare the customer at the points where they waver the most – inner-confidence. they’ll assume the superior position in knowing everything about the product, masterfully dissuade you from the competition, and manage to dispel any ugly, though probably true rumors you might have heard against its reliability, sturdiness, or quality.

if it’s a self-improvement product of any kind (in this case, beauty products) the sales associate will inwardly giggle in glee and tear into your self-esteem by going so far as to show (on you!) how their product will improve the very flaws you’re more than likely self-conscious about others noticing, or perhaps didn’t feel overly insecure about until they pointed out how bad it was, and how easily fixed for a small cost when compared to the great pay-off – your sense of worth and public appearance.

i recognized the marketing ploy, but went willingly along with it and only amazed myself afterward when i stopped to think (impulsivity begets many things, including an empty wallet). i don’t regret my purchases, but feeling vain doesn’t sit well in my stomach now.

mac cosmetics must pay their people really well.

wants vs. needs

One of the greatest, most essential lessons I teach in my professional life is the difference between a want and a need. Wants should be realistic, and needs do not only include the basics (food, shelter, clothing). A want, for this article’s purpose, relates to a desired object, preferred state, or accomplishment that is not attainable in the short-term and not necessary to maintain one’s current lifestyle or well-being. It could, however, be an established long-term goal a person sets for themselves, and it should be plausible, not an impossible fantasy. A need, then, is a requirement by an individual to retain one’s way of being in the present. It is not a guarantee, but a person is usually inclined to satisfy these needs over a possible want in order to avoid some consequence, whether physical or psychological.

Granted, this usually shows up when a person wishes to learn how to set financial goals for themselves, but it’s equally important in everyday life because one’s motivations drives their actions. It was also a more difficult lesson I learned, and a discussion topic this morning.
Some common examples are:

I want a brownie sundae, but need to keep my blood sugar in check.

I need to get to work, but can get there easily with public transportation. I want a car.

I want a digital SLR, but can only afford a point-and-shoot. I need to compromise.

I need companionship, but want to find The One.

I need a job, but want a pay raise or promotion.

Here is my list of wants and needs after much thought:

WANTS (because they’re more fun to write about):

  • Travel extensively to nearby and exotic lands.
  • Publish a best-selling book.
  • Become fluent in multiple languages, including Italian, Cantonese, and possibly Spanish.
  • Live in a suburban area.
  • Reside in a home and pay off the mortgage.
  • Own a brand new car.
  • Purchase a drool-worthy drumset, including add-ons.
  • Get married.
  • Earn a Ph.D. or Psy.D.
  • Pay off my debt.

NEEDS:

  • Continue to develop and nurture my relationship.
  • Stay in touch with and close to family and friends.
  • Keep busy, but relax and unwind at the end of each day.
  • Take better care of my body; exercise and get more sleep.
  • Pay the bills with a career, not a job, that fulfills me.
  • Continue to learn and see value in every experience.
  • Complete my daily chores and routine, but mix it up every now and then.
  • Make time for hobbies and interests.

quick and easy: steak & peppers for two

Regular readers and fellow foodies know that I appreciate a (relatively) healthy, quick and simple meal, but add ‘economical’ to the criteria as well and you have a dish that could make me cheer and drool in equal measure.

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tax day madness

Haven’t posted in awhile, and the first topic I can think to write about is Tax Day? Disgusting, but oh-so-necessary; it’s relaxing to write about now that it’s all over. I hope that your filing experiences went smoothly as well.

So, most Americans know the adage that there are only two certainties in life – death and taxes. The public generally is aware that Tax Day usually falls on April 15th annually. However, due to Emancipation Day in the District of Columbia, this date was pushed to the 18th. The biggest mistake for me was hearing about this and thinking, “Great! More time to file!”

My life finances are not that complicated. I don’t own housing property. I don’t have any dependents. I don’t invest in any stocks or run a business, and I certainly do not have a farm. I don’t gamble or make personal profits throughout the year. Luckily, my health is in relatively good order, so there isn’t much to report when it comes to medical expenditures or insurance premiums. Overall, it’s a relatively simple process and my W-2 and any other deduction documentation are gathered neatly in a folder, waiting to be used well before Tax Day.

Against my pro-active nature though, I didn’t file in advance this year. No, I procrastinated and scrambled on Sunday evening, around 11:30 pm. My father became aware of this on Sunday morning, when I stopped by to indulge in breakfast with the family.

He watched in interest as I started to pull out the standard paperwork and signed in to my chosen e-filing provider website.

“Handling this a little late, eh?” he commented with a raised eyebrow and chuckle.

“Oh, well, a little, but it will get done,” I reassured him.

“And you understand everything that you’re doing?” he asked skeptically and with a little bit of awe in his voice.

I scrunched up my face uncertainly, but kept my voice firm, “Yes, generally. At least they’ve always accepted my returns without any problems and I seem to have the information filled out properly. I might be missing out on some small, qualifying deductions, but even those are negligible. Once my life gets more interesting, I promise to consult with the professionals, Dad.”

He nodded in approval and resumed watching his baseball game. Breakfast was called (oh, chocolate panettone French toast, how I love thee) and I did not submit the returns until that evening. And yes, he sent me a message before that, which simply asked, “Did you file yet?”

Simplicity aside, there is still a learning curve when it comes to filing. I’ve seen stronger people buckle under the pressure. A lot of terms and ins and outs that gear up peoples’ anxieties and have them reaching for their wallets as they scurry to entrusted accountants and other tax professionals.  I hesitated several years ago, but at the last minute I canceled my appointment with H&R Block to take a stand against the tyranny; this was a me vs. convoluted, bureaucracy war!

Here’s what I came to question: How does the federal government expect the average citizen to understand this mumbojumbo? Taxes are needed to keep the country operational, but couldn’t there be a better standardized way? For instance, perhaps there could be free assistance and tax filing  centers that compete with the private markets or subsidies offered to accountants that advertise discounted rates (not just an annual deduction for the cost of paying for help).

Some really basic tips that might help you:

  • If you use a tax professional, ask them questions. Learn the process and understand the terminology. There is nothing worse than going along with whatever someone else is saying because we’re all human and prone to error; mistakes are possible – this is how different companies guarantee a larger refund than their competitors – they bank on human fallacy.
  • If you don’t use a tax professional, read everything you can get your hands on. Browse the FAQ or glossary sections of relevant books. There’s nothing worse than being stubborn in an attempt to be self-sufficient and screwing everything up. Getting your return rejected or having to file an amended return only creates frustration and wastes time.
  • Get together your documents in advance and keep it handy throughout the year in a place that is easily accessible. Use a system that works for you.
  • Do everything early. Don’t wait until the last minute because sometimes corrections are needed, technology isn’t fully reliable, and last minute appointments at your local accounting agency are improbable. When in doubt, file an extension.
  • If you use an e-filing method, choose a trustworthy vendor and use a secure, encrypted connection (look for the security lock symbol) on a compatible browser (I recommend Mozilla). Print out a copy of the return (in .pdf format) for yourself and check your e-mail for status updates from the IRS and local state offices. Save this information in a safe place.

It’s not all inclusive and I’m still learning, but if a rookie like me can figure it out with a little bit of effort, I have full faith in your ability to do so as well. Good luck!